How To Pick Up Women

by Joseph Matthews

Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!

Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women.  Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all.  Even those "Dating Experts" you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track!  (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn't like helping guys get laid!)

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!

First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to be "male model" good looking.

This is the biggest mistake men make.  You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.

Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car!  (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)

If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her.  And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?

Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.

The secret is to have a great personality - this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!

Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.

Unless you're already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you're probably not going to have phenomenal success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will skyrocket!

You'll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women - especially when you're first starting out.  You may be intimidated to go to "high pressure" environments like bars or clubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.

No matter what - if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women.  The more you do it, the better you'll get!

You might not have a whole lot of success when you first start - but you'll notice a change as your confidence with women begins to build.  Every success or failure you experience will help teach you the things you need to do to properly pick up women, and more importantly, what NOT to do!

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

All you're doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!

You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.

(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that's color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they're women), now's the time to recruit them.

It's true that you don't need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn't you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way.  Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don't let it pass you by!

Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure.  This means there's steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.

Here's the structure:

Find a girl.

Approach and meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need!  You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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